What does Demi Lovato look for in a lover? Image: AAP Tue-27-May-14 19:18 Share this By Steph Monks Demi Lovato has revealed what she looks for in a lover.She’s been dating her That ‘70s Show actor Wilmer Valderrama since 2010.She says to get her attention, a guy must be genuine, supportive, real and have the ability to make her laugh. She also admitted she doesn’t really care at all about the way she looks. She says, “To me, sexiness stems from being confident and comfortable in your own skin”. You May Also Like 'Leon Nights' parody about the boss Leon, sung by X Factor NZ winner Jackie Thomas Demi Lovato gets owned by an X Factor candidate Demi Lovato mentions New Zealand in her song Become a fan of The Edge on Facebook and on Twitter .