J Williams - 'My side of the story'

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J Williams revealed to Jay-Jay, Mike & Dom all about the allegations of violence, heavy drinking and the real figure he paid his ex for child support. Have a listen to the full interview...

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  • Joaane
    pps... I was surfing alittle this morning and I came across this ps and thought I would take time out to tell Wisen about getting past the hurt for Larissa. Larissa still finches when you raise your hand to reach for something in her space. Larissa now has trust issues she needs to work through. My once very confident girl now has anxiety attacks. The real issue was and still is in our societies miss managed alcohol. The sad fact to that is what is underlying factor to having a drinking problem. Jay was drinking before he met Larissa. And for the record he was brave to break it off while she pushing our beautiful bundle of Joy. Yeah great timimg told then her, left and then was told to come back to get a photo because it would not be good for his image. Please, it would not matter if he was going out with snow white my friend the problem exsits within the reason for drinking. Thanking you for your opinion but a fact is a fact. Speculating is just that. Im not Angry I am straight forward to much some would say but I know where I stand and that is against any Domestic Violance there is no excuse... However we would never turn love away from our child I have rasied my children with believing the more people that love you the better it is for you. If I have not liked someone I never put that predudice on my kids for that very reason. Jays problems are not my daughters any more she has to look at him everyday in her son so she had to forgive. The good news is he has to be very careful now lol and be a very good boy I assuem. His careera is already damaged and he flopped here in Australia thats what happens when your head gets to big. Or and Bad Managemnt its about the money and not the the developement of the artist. Its been said time and time again about NZ artists that we have so much talent but we seem to fall short of developing them into long term artists. lets just make a quick buck ay at what ever Lost or who's loss. Someone has to hurt in the beginning, who ends washed up and hurt the end very sad. Jo Jo
    17-May-2012 02:31 p.m.
  • Wisen
    P.S. Joanne. Look at the positive. J realized that they were poison to each other, some relationships are like that. So instead of years of making each other unhappy, he ended it. It takes courage to admit you need help and go and get it. I wish happiness for your daughter and for J and hope they both worked at being great parents for their son and setting an example for him. I wish you all the best for your family and hope you can all move past the anger and hurt. A beautiful child has come into your family, he has no knowledge of hatred, it would be a shame to teach him that!!!!
    29-Oct-2011 11:42 a.m.
  • wisen
    I'm a survivor of abuse and I agree with the comments of 'Friendly' on the other page. I have no tolerance for abuse but at the same time I have no tolerance for lying. Larrissa has told half truths with the purpose to destroy J's career, she's hurting and she wants to make him pay. She knew he was getting help yet still went and made their private life public. I could understand it more if he was denying it and not trying to make changes, and then it would have been that she wanted him to change for their son. She said the Campbell interview was for her son and for truth, but it wasn't it was more for herself and she knows she only told half truths. The sad thing is, one day her son will see the interview and what has been said about his daddy. I respect the fact that J is getting help, the ones that abused me would never admit they needed help. I was threatened with a knife and a gun and am glad I am still alive today. Joanne you are not a counsellor or if you are you really need to talk to both parties before coming to a decision. As anyone would know there are two sides to a story and somewhere in the middle is the truth. Sadly you need a lot more training in compassion and understanding. With true abusers they pass their baggage onto you, so you are left with this monster inside you, so survivors of abuse have a decision to make, do they pass this monster inside onto their children or do they say, the cycle of abuse stops with me. J continue with your counselling and continue to make yourself the best dad for your son. To Larrissa, get help, don't try and turn your son against his dad cause he won't stay a baby forever and children grow up and it could backfire on you. Let his dad love him and surround this beautiful child with love. There is enough hatred in this world already. To the lady DJ, good on you for showing compassion, this world needs more people like you!!!
    27-Oct-2011 01:12 p.m.
  • Joanne
    Read the Otargo comments at the Herald.com and by the way lady DJ I am in My third year of Pyschology and I am a Consellor for 4 years I have had a business for 12 years here in Sydney Hair and Beauty lounge and I look after all the stars here I am running this in my salon at the moment you should hear what people are saying Larissa had a fantastic modelling and styling company and her mother me is finacially stable and so is Larissa. listen to this interview again and again if you are inteligent you will hear how Polthetic you sounded as a women discusting the man DJ sounded a little more intune listening to you both you should be ashamed of yourselves. Larissa had being calling me and saying I just gonna move on mum and I was the one that told her to bring it out. So that has squshed his bull, poor you J I have never met you and I never want to get rid of that female DJ Idiot.. Im going too cry because you broke Larissa's fingers. Women like you make once were worries. Joanne Miles. I had JWiiliams song aired here in Sydney As I am part time DJ writer the DJ just shook there heads. He tapped danced around her for nearly a year till she took noticed Larissa thought this was cute I saw it as Scarey and sure enough.
    02-Sep-2011 08:11 a.m.
  • Cal
    Oh wow guys, guess no one of you never got to know Larissa! A lot of peple know what kind of person she really is! She´s not a nice person at all! If she treated Williams the way she treated other persons in the past....no wonder! I told you Larissa- one day you´ll get KARMA!
    27-Jun-2011 03:52 a.m.
  • V
    How unprofessional is it for DJ taking sides? How would you feel when the man you love left you DAYS before your baby's born? For those who are supporting him doing that, you must be SICK!!!!!!! Any normal human will know how difficult it is to give birth to a child. Larissa is beautiful and talented, and God knows how much opportunities she gave up so she can stay with her man. I am disgust when he mentioned about mental illness, so he is having abusive, alcohol problem is normal? And is not part of mental illness? I would say the only mental illness she had is full in love with someone who's been lying to her for so long!!!!!!!!! Stop saying you just want to move on, at the same time go on radio station to stir the news more. Stop saying you will see your son when you become better, then changed your story within 1 min saying she doesn't let you see the baby. Yes, J, you may not be a monster, but you should not say "I didn't want any of this" coz you asked for it!! Stop mentioning about how much you gave her when you kicked her out! Does that make you feel like a man? @ Noone: Just becoz he's there at birth doesn't make him a man. He's there and spend most of his time on his phone and couldn't even look at her when she's in pain. How did you know she's bullshiting? I didn't know that they had a flat mate with them! Or maybe a stalker! Get your facts right before you attack otherwise it just sounds like you've done it to others before and you got away with it! IT'S NEVER NORMAL and NEVER OK! Only make comments like this when you are one of the witness! Otherwise you are telling the world how SICK you are!
    26-Jun-2011 09:23 p.m.
  • Y
    seeking help for your alcohol problem my ass. LIAR i have fully seen this guy pull leo.. i am one of her friends and i will always stand up for leo. josh is a loser. it does not matter whether you dragged and pushed her or punched or whatever. you still put your hands on her. leo should have pressed charges. it doesnt matter if she didnt press charges - this doesnt mean that josh never touched her, because we have fully seen him manhandle her. josh just grow up be a man own up to what you did you can say whatever you want but you are the one who touched leo. she did not touch you did she? i dont know why people are so quick to jump to josh's defence, they dont even know him they just see him in the media thats it. you havent seen what goes on behind closed stores so grow up NZ and go get lives!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    24-Jun-2011 09:23 p.m.
  • J.Williams
    This is the most pathetic interview ever. J.Williams is a douchebag. If he wanted to see his son he could see him - go through family court. 35grand isint that much. beneficiaries receive less than 20 grand a year. 35 grand wont last long when your looking after a child. Therapy is not a quick fix for the type of issues hes talking about - hes trying to move on but this will haunt him for the rest of his life.
    24-Jun-2011 11:03 a.m.
  • J.B
    This was the topic of conversation on the weekend at a 21st! So had to have a listen! I'd like to ad that I among others have witnessed J pull stand over tactics on his mrs at a club on k-rd that following week my husband was there and also said he saw jwilliams yell at his mrs aggressively. When it got into a really good group convesation there were at least 8 people at this party who had witness jwilliams be aggressive to his mrs on different occasions. And for the public who have never seen the two. J is around 6ft solid build and muscular. Laarissa is a 5 feet tall skinny size zero. A push towards her in an agresive way from j.williams wouldve sent her fyln. Bringing up her mental illness what a loser. And I'm sorry the edge but you can tell this cat is lying. People at the party were shocked he would do this to his partner ;( mother of his child ;( one guy said he use to be so lovely before dancing and singing got to his head. Go you Larissa, we all know your not lying girl. Chin up! And to the edge I love your station but seriously the worst one sided interview I have ever ever heard! And many people agree with me. But lets move on ae...
    23-Jun-2011 07:04 p.m.
  • james
    your welcome jay i am your fan 4 life
    23-Jun-2011 10:53 a.m.

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