J Lo still keeps in touch with Ben Affleck ben and Jen Fri-12-Oct-12 11:05 Share this Tell Us What You Think WTF 0 LOL 0 FAIL 0 OMG 0 HOT 0 CUTE 0 ] By Jay-Jay FeeneyJennifer Lopez still keeps in touch with her ex-fiance Ben Affleck, eight years after they split.Ben says, "We don't have the kind of relationship where she relies on me for advice, but we do have the kind of relationship where there'll be an e-mail saying, 'Oh, your movie looks great.' I remember when she got American Idol. I said: 'This was really smart. Good luck.' You May Also Like Are Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck getting a divorce? Barbara Walters: Most Fascinating people of 2012 Ben Affleck crashes into a parked car Ben Affleck does his best to get back in the spotlight Become a fan of The Edge on Facebook and on Twitter .